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Omolade Okaiyeto
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Приєднався 4 бер 2011
Welcome to my channel guys. As you can see my name is Omolade Okaiyeto however I am also known as Selina. I am Nigerian and British born. I am into so many things, I like to review restaurants some would say I am very strict. I really enjoy travelling and love to share my experience with you guys. How can I forget I am a christian and address church topics that nobody wants to talk about. You can also check out my website omoladeokaiyeto.co.uk also active on instagram @sel_lade.
Overcoming spiritual abuse talk | With @YoungLadiesClub1
💎 I was invited by @YoungLadiesClub1 for a powerful conversation on overcoming spiritual abuse. Learn about the signs of spiritual abuse, how to heal from spiritual abuse, and how to move forward positively.
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Religious guilt
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💎 Business Inquiries
omoladeokaiyeto@gmail.com
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💎 Cashapp
£sellade
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💎 Equipment
Canon G7x Mark ii
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💎 Music credit
Shiny day
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Wow nearly 500 views keep supporting guy's
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The weight of my life just lifted off my shoulders! I got my wings back!
So happy for you very encouraging
Lots of gems! Thank you for sharing❤
You are welcome and appreciate you taking the time to watch ♥️
In my 30 ‘s single and no kids🎉
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That looks so good. It’s definitely on my list now. I don’t know if you’ve tried Flygerians, but their food is pretty good. It’s in Peckham
Yes I have tried flygerian glad I got to experience it
Omolade sorry I know I’ve left comments already but this just came to me. I remember when I was attending a certain church where there was a lot of man made traditions. Well I was out in town and had the need to use the bathroom desperately and the only place open at that time that I could find was a pub. I had to dash in and use the bathroom. Well when I was coming out you would have think I was a spy looking left and right when leaving hoping no one that knew me from church and I was feeling so guilty. Eventually I had to speak to one of my friends and she really upended my eyes by saying but Ronke God sees your heart and he knows why you were there and it’s God alone who is important and knows the truth. And I thought gosh that is so true
Yh it’s ok sometimes it’s good to let it out and it does takes time to deconstruct glad your friend was there to advise you at the right time.
Walking with God is such a personal thing and we all need to work out our own salvation. The devil loved to find ways to make us feel guilty either by using other people or using our weaknesses and flaws. But the blood of Jesus cleans us continuously. I found when I wasn’t going to church for a while didn’t mean that I no longer believed in God but I was in transition trying to find a new place of worship and although I felt guilty I had to trust that I was still in Gods hands and that my life is hid in Christ. I have my flaws and will not always be right but God knows the way that I take and I answer to him whose mercy’s are new every morning. I hope this helps
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience on this God Bless you.
KJV Romans 8 . [1] There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
Amen
Babes there is now no condemnation to those that trust in God behold all things have passed away and behold all things become new
😢the trauma I am dealing with.... I haven't touched their Bible in months because that's the weapon that was used to exploit me.
So sorry to hear that I completely understand
🥲tell me about catching up with life... I think all ex-members of that cult just go through that "picking up the pieces" phase hey. Religion is toxic🤧
Yes I totally agree with that
The path to freedom is a long path. Well done for starting the journey, keep leaning on the Holy Spirit, He knows all our hearts struggle and challenges.
Thank you very much for the encouragement
Well done again Selina that is one word i havent heard before wow. Hard to make decisions i can relate but getting better at it .i must say i thought you was very disife person but keep it by his grace sis. I think there is a healthy way of reacting when you have done something wrong. I can relate to the old church of making you feel about those type of things. Letting people down i get that one to but trying not to feel as bad and being strong at making strong boundaries and being ok with it . Not right in there eyes wow yeah i get that but working procees indeed. Speaking more with non Christian friends i get that they seem more understanding Always here sis to speak outside of your channel if you need someone to speak with 😊 😊😊 There is always hope that things will get better as long as we are honest with ourselves and share with those you trust and are on the same journey as you Keep it up sis Well done for your transparency as always God Bless
lol we learn something new everyday this was also a new discovering for me too appreciate it bro and thanks for taking the time to comment.
Spiritual grooming and Shepherding.
yep that's right
I'm less than 10 minutes in and I'm amazed at how much i can relate to this. I was in a cult like church for 7 years and left about 5 months ago. Its still a lot to process, especially when you realise that so many practices were abusive, controlling and not Christ like at all...... Let me finish watching 😅
So glad you are finding my video relatable and well done for taking the step to leave. Completely understand few years later and I am still processing
Trying to find a video on the hotel rather than themselves is hard
Used I believe on a young adult (teenager) by a middle-aged married family-man...toxic and covert method used by adults that needs exposing wherever it exists...perhaps a more subtle form of grooming less known in the adult world.
The thing is that leaving a church does not mean one has left God or your faith. Unfortunately there are some cults out there. God does say we need to work out our own salvation in fear and trembling and sometimes we have to break away from the traditions of men. I say this because unfortunately some churches are governed by their own traditions and not what the scriptures really mean or should I say what God really means
Honestly really well said thank you for commenting
Your video is sooo sooo cool - so natural - I love watching it
Thank you really appreciate it
No wayyyyyy!!! Is that the Dominican Republic 🇩🇴 😮😮😮😮omg wowwwwwwwwwwww
It really is one of the most beautiful islands
It is nice there - wowwwwwww
It is beautiful
This was so relatable! Congratulations on your 4 years of freedom! 🥹❤️🙌🏾
Thank you so much. Freedom from that place is so beautiful.
I was groomed at the age of 7 and shortly after he started abusing me sexually. I'm glad I've healed from the experience. Thank you for sharing
So sorry to hear that this happened to you and glad you have healed from it as it must have been very difficult.
Thank you for sharing and being transparent. What stood out for me was that you were trying to be perfect and checking off boxes to earn...key word "earn" God's love. Many have voiced their opinions and left Scriptures in the comment section. But I heard spiritually what was being said and I can relate 💯 Thank you ❤
Thank you so much for taking the time to comment on my video I really appreciate it.
Congratulations on 4 years! You are glowing 🌞. Freedom looks good on you 😍
Thank you so much 😊
Happy Freedom Anniversary sis! 🎉💞 I’m so proud of you and just know life will keep going. The best is ahead. ❤❤❤❤❤
Your encouragement means the world to me. Thank you for always being there.
Happy 4th anniversary sis congratulations keep it up
Thank you so much
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I'm 17 and 5 years ago I met a man around 35 years old on a mlp forum. He took me in as his friend during the worst times of my life. My parents supported are friendship and no one thought it was weird. His friends would gift me things and i felt loved for once. He gave me all the attention I desired. Though there where weird sexual comments I ignored then for the special attention. Today I just had my first complet breakdown over him not responding I broke down crying for over an hour and finally realized how miserable I am without him... I'm extremely dependent on him and im still a teenager.. I feel like my life was robbed from me.. they are my only freind and I feel like there all I have...
So sorry to hear that this has your been your experience I really do advise speaking to a professional about this and remain safe
Great content as usual
Much appreciated
I'm in my early twenties and I can relate to this. There are things I wish had done differently in my teens, like making friends and just being a teen girl. I am allergic to conformity and 'authority'.
Aww I completely here that and hopefully you will be able to catch up on that now. It’s your prime time now so please enjoy.
🎉🎉💃💃❤❤new subbie here🇿🇦 I think I can identity this church or maybe it's just similar to the mega cult I was at a few months ago. 😕I'm so sorry that you had to go through such a traumatic experience of being judged and ostracized simply because you lost your title/position in the church. I'm sure some people in the church treated you somehow after that. I'm glad you dad left that toxic environment early and that you also came back to reality. Chaaiii! I've been through the most, we've been through the most in these 'churches'; from gaslighting to guilt-tripping to emotional, psychological, physical, verbal and financial abuse.😐 I don't even want to mention the control and violation of people's boundaries. 🧐 Omo! How do I even forget the racism, sexism and misogyny. Shaa, let keep quiet, I shall share my experiences in my book and future YT channel😔
Yep I am sure its the same place. Glad your eyes are open too honestly from what you have mentioned it’s all a madness in that place. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch my video and commenting I really appreciate it.
@@OmoladeOkaiyeto 🙂❤you're welcome
Black owned? Who gives a shit? What colour you are :)
How long have you had your UK licence for? And what part of USA did you go to?
About 14 years and it was Maryland
What time of year was this? The water is super clear and I hear they get a lot of seaweed there.
Yes thats true, we were lucky this was in June
I'm definitely being groomed
oh no so sorry to hear that but the fact you have come to a realisation that is progress
This review helped me avoid that place. I’ve read bare negative review about this place.
Honestly you are welcome
Loved this you2 should definitely consider speaking on more topics on the faith if possible
Thanks for the feedback appreciate it
I was like that too
Thank God for freedom
Good video, thank you for the review. Nice to Have visual reviews of places 🎉
You are welcome thanks for taking the time to watch it
You got suckered into the sales pitch?
Maybe lol
Hello Omolade, can i travel to Mexico with my Biometric Resident Permit (BRP)?
Not sure of the answer for this one sorry
What do you prefer Suya and Lobster or Enish?
Neither, Enish does more local Nigerian dishes and Suya and Lobster is more seafood focused. So it just depends what you are going for.
What's the demographic in this place? Is it Nigerian? I imagine the age demographic is 18-25?
I would definitely say the age range was quite wide 21-40 I would say.
Not impressed that they charge you an entrance fee??? Why when you will normally pay for the food and service charge as well. What is the entrance fee for. Very strange
Yhh it is different it caught me off guard
@@OmoladeOkaiyeto especially if one still has to pay a service fee
Emmm do they take off the £5 entry fee off your final bill 🤔
No they don’t they did this as a kind gesture because they noticed I was creating content
@@OmoladeOkaiyeto do you have any idea why they charge an entrance fee in this restaurant
Guys please don’t go to this place all these influencers are not telling you the truth the place is awful. The chairs are mismatched and ripped tables are left dirty and the place is very unclean! the food takes forever to come out and in the end never came out! The drinks are not mixed properly! the staff are rude and aggressive!
Sorry to hear that was your experience
u need to be honest when ur reviewing because to be fair you clearly was invited to the venue. I suggest you turn up un announced to get the real side of this venue. The review is very misleading
@@fashunsauce2865 I am always honest with my reviews and I was not invited. This review is quite old now so things may have changed since then. Again sorry to hear your experience was not the best and thanks for taking the time to watch my video have a good rest of the week.
Is it a black owned restaurant? Can you order food to the shisha lounge?
@@deebaks1241 it is black owned the times I went you can order food in the Shisha lounge but it’s a different menu. Small nibbles not a whole meal.
Wait… are from the Mi high series back in 2008 UK ?
No I am not lol